Someone close to me had her breasts removed two days ago. I am trying to help as much as I can and it is selfish of me to be thinking of my self right now, but I feel like I am looking at her differently that I had before and I don't know why. I don't know how to help her cope with the pain, physically or emotionally. I hate cancer. It has taken my grandpa, two of my close friends from adolescences, my peer's parents, even the daughter of a peer. My mom's partner has had prostate cancer and now I have been introduced to breast cancer.